Tarot cards predicted?

my mother recently used the tarot cards on me and they predicted that if i lost my virginity in 2009 id have a baby im really worried how are accurate are tarot cards (please SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY)

Tarot cards predicted?
Hello





Maybe your mum is right, or maybe she is trying to warn you about pregnancy %26amp; this is the only way she can start the conversation?





Talk to your mum.





Pam
Reply:I'd be interested in how she got a if then type answer. The cards are as accurate as the reader, situation, %26amp; people involved, are honest, connected, and skilled; and they are never 100%.





If you have sex you can get pregnant. Tarot cards, spells, prayers, and anything else, can't change the facts, sex is how someone gets pregnant. If you don't want to get pregnant, be responsible for YOURSELF.





I am a Tarot reader and believe in the power of the cards, however I would never give up control or responsibility for myself to something outside myself. If I did a reading that said I wouldn't get pregnant, I would still do everything in my control to make that a true statement, if I didn't, I have not only changed my future by not doing something I would have without the reading, I've given up control and responsibility of my life. Never a good idea.
Reply:They don't hit the nail on the head hun, nothing to worry about.
Reply:oh for goodness sake ...


please dont listen to her





I am sorry , I know she is your mother


but this is nonsense





you will loose your virginity when YOU are ready to


you wont get pregnant if you use contraception





simple as that





I read cards ... but I know silliness when I see it
Reply:lol!
Reply:I have a sneaking suspicion Mom's just trying to keep you from doing just that anytime soon.





Tarot cards don't predict events that far in the future. Tarot is used for guidance, and can be very accurate about past situations and current situations and how to deal with them, and while they may indicate some *near* future happenings, the actuality of such happenings being definite would be contingent on you staying on the exact same path you are on right now. Sorry, but a whole year? You will make millions of different decisions and choices in that time frame that will alter your life's path, even if ever so slightly.





I would say that if this "prediction" came true, it's because you truly believed it would happen and then therefore created the reality of it. Self-fulfilled prophecy.
Reply:They are accurate as the person reading them. The person should have an ability without the cards. Your mother may be testing you to see if you are sexually active. It doesnt matter how good they are its how careful are you?
Reply:Your mom is very clever...





and you are very gullible.
Reply:The future is not set in stone! Just be sure to *ahem* keep your legs closed in 2009 and you won't have to worry. I think your mom might have been trying to scare you or she has some concerns about her daughter dating. You'll be fine :)
Reply:How old are you? Maybe she was trying to scare you into abstinence.


Tarot cards are very accurate, IF you stay on a certain path. As someone said they are able to change-and they are only as good as the reader.





However, when we read people we already know a lot about if not everything about-we run into interpreting teh cards with ego and bias-which is purely accidental and not intentional.


This could happen in your case. If this came from an accurate psychic who is not knowledgeable on your life and you are thinking about being sexually active, I would say it's possible to take it seriously. Also figure into affect whether your mother is experienced, psychic, and her history of accuracies or failures on prophecies.


if she's new to it, or isn't intuitive...i'd say no, the cards probably are not accurate -especially with the biased added on..





However, if you are sexually active you already have a HUGE chance of becoming pregant-That's common sense. No protection is 100% (sometimes the pill even fails to work-happened to my friend) and you have to realize that you're at risk each and every time. If you don't want a child, do not have intercourse-b.c that's what it's prime function is for. If you do, ge on the pill or get protected.





All in all, sounds like a scare tactic.
Reply:Sounds like your mom knows you'll be dating soon and wanted to scare you into keeping your legs crossed.





I wouldn't take it too seriously. Just use protection or refrain from sex until you can mentally and financially support a child. Then you'll have no problems.
Reply:Tarot cards fail to predict that their users are paving their way all the way to hell